Some time back I posted a blog titled “How To Get Him To Do That Honey-Do List,” and recently I received this comment: “I’m assuming you haven’t been married very long? Not to sound rude, but unless you’ve lived in a construction zone for the past two years like I have with unfinished projects at […]
We all know we reap what we sow, and in marriage this principle is a virtual flashing red light. The more work and attention you put into your relationship, the better it gets. And more importantly, the more joy you feel. Any time you see a happy couple, you are looking at a couple who […]
After being married for 36 years I finally took the love language test to find out what my love language was. I was totally surprised by the results. For those of you who have no idea what I’m talking about Dr. Gary Chapman has a book titled, The 5 Love Languages and for some reason […]
When was the last time you were counting on someone and they totally let you down? My first recollection of being totally baffled and dumbfounded by someone who I thought I could trust and count on was when I was five years old. There was a teenager in my neighborhood, actually it was a male […]
As I sit in the lobby of the physical therapy center while my husband receives the treatment he needs for his recent knee replacement surgery I think about our many years together and the many challenges we’ve had. I’m thinking about marriage because I’ll be speaking about marriage soon at an upcoming conference. What should […]
It was a fantastic morning. I accompanied my kids to a gymnastic class for my grandchildren. The boys are ages two and two and a half, and they are both full of all the energy life can offer. Watching both boys play with their fathers was a highlight of my year for sure. But that’s […]
I can’t remember the last time I felt as infuriated by another person. Or in this case two people—two men. I’m 99% sure that at least one of them was a pastor. And please know I have a huge respect for pastors, being married to one myself. I think pastors are some of the best […]
My husband and I were sitting on our front porch enjoying breakfast. Across the street was a couple walking their dog together. Calm. Beautiful morning. We sipped our coffee as we talked. Then, suddenly the couple across the street started arguing. Did they see us across the street from them? Hadn’t they noticed we could […]
This past week the suicide of a 30 year old megachurch pastor made national news. National news? Devastating news. Heartbreaking news. Tragic news. He left behind a gorgeous wife, three beautiful little boys, and a grieving congregation who loved him. What could cause a young man who seemed to have it all to take his […]
There are many things to consider when questioning if it’s time to get married, and if the person you’re with is “the one.” There are many factors. One I often tell people to consider is whether or not “this one” is someone you want to serve the rest of your life. Entering into marriage is […]
